Once I was explaining to my students a grammatical structure. Each student was very concentrated while we were studying new vocabulary. During the explanation I gave them some examples on the board, then; during the practice stage, students had to use their own ideas to complete a series of exercises.
Suddenly, a student publicly expressed a new
idea for the practice, the student suggested to do a more interactive practice.
I reacted surprised and considers it as a
nonsense idea. Although there was not disorder because the flow of the class
was maintained.
That occasion, was perfect to use “soft
eyes" because I would have liked to react differently and take into
account the new idea of my student.
I think I reacted in that way as a defensive manner
I felt fear of losing control of the class, but the student thought he was
treated like my enemy.


